Look at all those boxes! Surely there is something clever we can do with those….. This year as you know we added two Daisies to our troop, we started to work on Journey books at our mee…
Hello! I’m Sommer. I like to write things. Drink coffee. Ponder. Write more things. I am a practitioner of mindfulness. And I write about it. I am a mother. And I write about that too. I was also dealt quite the hand. A Royal Flush, with Anxiety and Depression as my Ace and King. I’ve managed, through exhaustive practice, to pull them out of the deck. I still have the cards though. I’ve accepted that. I also write about that. Enjoy the read, stop over at the blog if you dig it! I will go put on a pot of coffee!
They are Watching Us
By Sommer, TheGreenGlasses.com
I’m taking a cultural communications class. If we just focus on the amount of work associated with it then it would be an absolute nightmare. The content itself is intriguing though. Especially the content centered around ‘self’. Or rather family. The epicenter of culture is family. This is where we get the tools needed to go out in the world and build a house. Our values, our beliefs, our behaviors. If you think globally then you’re like “duh, Sommer” but what if you pull out your mega magnifying glass and really look at what you do, when you do it, and how you do it. It comes from family. My preferred choice of peanut butter, the way I fold laundry, make a bed, prepare a meal. At the very center of me is my family. I could examine myself for days; peering into my values, beliefs and behaviors.
But what I am really thinking about are my kids. I am their family. I am their center. What I do now will carry forth into their adulthood. It might not manifest into a peanut butter choice. But it will manifest into how they view the world and its people. And it’s exciting! When I set off to have children this was NOT at the forefront of my mind. And honestly I don’t know what was driving that boat. I only knew I wanted to be a mother. But here I am. I have two growing minds at my fingertips. Every action and reaction is being cataloged by them. And to some, and even myself at times, this may seem like a massive and scary responsibility. But to me, it seems fun, an opportunity to help create two amazing adults who will navigate the world. I am not their only influence and I know that. But I am their mother.
I’ve touched on it before. Do as I do rather than do as I say. They are watching us. They need to see us succeed and fail, be happy and sad, overcome challenges, have bad days and good. They need the full spectrum. They need to know we aren’t perfect. Because they aren’t perfect. And neither of us ever will be. They need to see us having a bad day but still being courteous to the cashier at the grocery store. They need to see us mad at them but still comforting them with affection. How we treat them and others will be the foundation for how they treat themselves and those they encounter.
Now would be a good time to step back, pause, and take a good long look at how you behave. How you speak of other people, of other religions, races, cultures, political beliefs. How you generalize. How you treat the janitor versus how you treat the CEO. Are you condemning those that are different than you? Or are you respecting the differences? Are you really listening to them while looking at your phone? Are you teaching them to learn by words or by actions? Are you placing value on possessions or moments? Are you allowing them to experience music that is different from your preference? Books? People? Are you trying new things together?
What will be their view of family? What does their cornerstone look like? If you take a snapshot of today and examine it, what does it really look like? Do you need to adjust the sails? I know I do.
Are you fully aware of your audience when you rise upon your soapbox at the dinner table or while watching the news? If you are the epicenter of your children then know they are soaking it all up. All of it. Even your peanut butter choice.
I hope you enjoyed this post I reached out to Sommer to guest post as I read her blog constantly and resonate with so much that she talks about. Life is hard sometimes we just need to see (read) that we aren’t alone and how other humans handle it. So do yourselves a favor and follow https://thegreenglasses.com/ …… and thank you Sommer you can guest post any time you want!
That’s right a wooden watch! And for people like me this is a miracle….I always want to wear a watch but for some reason I always end up with a green wrist or the strap falls apart. That is not possible with this wonder watch not to mention how beautiful it is. When I received it in the mail I never imagined it would come in such a lovely box.
Each watch comes with a cleaning cloth and the box even has a drawer so can use it for other jewelry. And when you get on the site you will be amazed at the colors available.
The littlest pea has already called dibs but NO this one is mine !
I have had so many compliments on this watch and trust me when I say I absolutely love it, it matches everything ~ (it’s the Frankie 35 by the way)
Not to mention for this girl who is constantly taking the peas out in the woods for solitude having my watch for…
time instead of having to keep pulling out a phone is great and less distracting.
Want your own or better yet get that someone special their own unique watch visit the Jord store online and hey why not get a discount too!
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It was out first day without Volleyball practice or a game. So I decided I would grab the girls after work, get a pizza and go to one of the parks we wanted to check off our list! It was only 20 minutes away so why not we had a few hours before it got dark.
The plan was to eat, play a little and get a short hike in….well we ate and then drove to the other side of the park we were at Tall Tree area where it was trails upon trails BUT the play area was on the other side the Buckeye area…. http://www.metroparks.net/parks-and-trails/walnut-woods/
Someone thought she would reenact the Lion King sans Simba ( I wouldn’t let her hold the Pheebs up that would have been a disaster!)
So the one thing I noticed is that if I don’t get the hike in first….we don’t go…well we went a whopping 50 feet maybe ….
See the littlest I’m so excited to hike face back there?
All the newer parks like this have the best dog parks ….the kids would love a dog maybe some day.
Yep 50 feet when it was decided we couldn’t walk without hiking boots….really? It’s a paved path…..and this is why we hike first.
She just wanted back here!
There is our times up sign….a beautiful sunset.
So yeah, we have hit 5 out of 18 of the Central Ohio parks we started late and have Hocking Hills in there a couple times. This week we hit another one yet to be decided~
It’s coming to that time of year again, it always hits me and for a week before I just can’t function right; maybe this will help.
May 9, 2010 was Mother’s Day that year. We were at my ex husband’s family’s house after just laying his Grandfather to rest. We got up and was ready to head to my family’s house to spend the day with Mom and Gram. I get a text from my brother…”Gram was having trouble breathing they are at the hospital” I text back if it was ok we would drop the kids off at the house with him and Mom and go straight to the hospital. It seemed like it took forever to get my family in the car. I was worried but reassured everyone she would be ok….she had to be. Half way to Akron from Orrville (maybe 20 minutes) I get another text from Ben…..”just come to the house” ….. my heart sank, something was wrong ,,,,we were going to the house first why a text to come straight there? Oh my god…..I replied….”ok”.
We pull into the drive way of the house I grew up in, raised by these amazing people I had the privilege of calling MY grandparents when I see him……Ben this tall 24 year old kid who never knew anyone other than my grandparents as Mom and Dad, bawling in the middle of the drive way waiting for me. I whispered “she’s gone” and ran to him. This is the moment I remember every time I pull into the drive way, even today.
So much happened that week my Mom left the day of the funeral with my sister and her family to live with them. I felt like we didn’t get to say goodbye to her. (she came to live with us a short time later). I helped Grandpa with the bills, calling all the doctors to let them know she passed away, dealing with insurance. I stayed there a week while my daughters were with my ex and his family. I hated leaving him to go back to my life in Columbus, he was now alone…..his wife of over 50 years gone, his daughter who they took care of the last 24 years gone and now I had to leave. Ben would visit every day and make sure he was eating and eventually took over the bills for him since he is there. It was all just a process and six years later things are ok. BUT not a day goes by not a decision I make or mistake I pay for I’m not thinking what would Gram had told me to do.
I could go into how hard it had to be for her, raising her daughter all over again and her three kids when she should have been retiring and traveling the world with Gramps, but that would be a super long post because she sacrificed everything for us. I was lucky enough to know her for 34 years even more lucky that when I became an adult I could talk to her about everything she wasn’t just my Gram, she was my Mom and my friend. We learned to not sugar coat things and even laughed because the look I get, that look Phoebe gets when we hear or see something stupid?? Yeah I got that from her….she gave me that look more times than I can count…haha.
I miss her, I miss calling every time I needed real advise, I miss her telling me not to be a “fool”, I miss her telling saying I love you. Because the one thing she taught me is that true real love is out there. The love that she and Gramps shared was true love, they would never give up on each other and always made us kids feel that epic love.
In the six years she has been gone, Ben has gotten married and had two beautiful children. I got divorced and moved but stayed in Columbus. We lost two cousins entirely too soon, family weddings and babies all over the place. Things have never been the same, our extended families have sort of drifted but we are trying to stay together. Ben, his family, Gramps, the girls are I are together every chance we get that bond will only get stronger.
My only regret is that I never truly got to say goodbye, I love you Gram.
Look at all those boxes! Surely there is something clever we can do with those…..
This year as you know we added two Daisies to our troop, we started to work on Journey books at our meetings but after two meetings and two leaders trying to work with three groups…well, it just wasn’t working. So I sat down and looked at all the other earned patches and petals that the girls could work on together.
So for our first unified meeting we worked on the Junior Drawing, Brownie Painting and Daisy Using Resources wisely patches.
What we did was use all but one end of the cookie boxes talk about using resources wisely! I used a box cutter of course
I was careful but still ended up tossing a couple of the ends because I cut wrong, good thing I had a ton!
So basically you are are tossing out the two small side on one end and keeping all the rest…..for what you ask?
Sketch Books and Easels!
I went ahead and pre-poked the holes in the books and paper for the sketch books and made kits for each girl with a sharpened pencil too.
Pretty easy to assemble just make sure the writing is on the inside cover so the outside cover can be decorated.
Then for the easel …. I found that the tagalongs and dosidos were the best for this one. I used the bulk of the box for this again with the writing on the inside. Simply attach the boxes on the top so that they stand up. I used duck tape to keep it together and heavy plastic sheets recycled from reports I get everyday. Normally tossed in the recycle bin I justs kept mine. Here it is in stages…..First duck taped closed….second glued the plastic sheet on the box so the paint wouldn’t run through to the cardboard and third with the clip holding the watercolor paper on to the easel.
It took a few hours getting 12 together and of course making sure it worked LOL! I got each girl her own water color paints (97 cents each at walmart), and brushes.
All set to take to the meeting…..Our project was this taking the part of of the law that states “Be a sister to every girl scout” sketch something that shows this action and then paint it.
I mixed the girls up too, split up the three groups to sit with each other and if they went to the same school, they didn’t sit together. It’s a constant struggle with girls to make sure every one of them get along, I try not to stand in from of them lecturing instead trying to incorporate this principle in our meetings.
It was a great meeting, I took 5 pictures of the above and still couldn’t get them all to smile at once LOL! maybe next meeting will be photography???
Re_Blogged 3/2/15 Original Blog Date 2/14
It’s cookie season as you know, and we are getting ready for a lot of cookie sale opportunities! With all of our booth ideas running through our heads we are also getting ready for Walk About Week. For those that don’t know that is when we go door to door as a troop. First thing I made for the girls is a lanyard to make it easier and faster when some one asks what kind and how much.
Here is a short tutorial on how I made ours….
5 yards of thick cos grain ribbon made 18 lanyards, it could make more or less depending on how long you make yours.
I had gotten a bag of these at a yard sale for a dollar I like using these for the lanyard clip than the two-part way you see a lot online. Lace this through the ribbon first.
Then sew the ribbon together. I sewed it three times across because the girls will pull on them I am sure.
I printed out the cookie variety and the price cheat sheet and stuck them to a green paper to match the ribbon.
Once I cut them out I laminated them and cut the out again with my helper…
(who was really watching Bo on the Go)
Punched a hole with the handy dandy crop-o-dile
And hooked the to the lanyards!
This is not an original idea I saw it on pinterest and I would mention the blog it came from but there wasn’t an attached author! But if you would like to see that one here is the pin link (-: http://pinterest.com/pin/64035625923800679/
I will keep update my blog with whatever we do for this cookie season we are so excited this year ~!
(note I got the year on the cheat sheet wrong oops! and not a single scout noticed LOL)
I did not have a template for the cheat sheets but have gotten several request so here you go! Just print out and resize if needed (-: Let me know how they turned out!
Here are the super six from the bakers website in two different looks
I put them on Word so that you can right click as resize as needed I made the 5×5 inch with the card stock border if that helps at all (-:
Thank you to everyone who has made such nice comments! Our troop went to our council Cookie Rally and they had them there for the passports I loved it (-: !
Every summer our troop meets at a local park since we normally meet at a school and don’t have access when school is out. Not to mention who wants cooped up in a school when it is SUMMER! So for our first meeting I just wanted the girls to have fun putting lots of thought into it I decided we would be as active as we could. (Unfortunately only 4 girls showed up to this meeting but it was still fun (-: )
We began with
Jump Rope ten times then the Long Jump: Run until they get to the hula hoop then jump as far as they can Ms. Erin will then use a ribbon to measure.
I never saw it coming but all the girls kept falling luckily no one was hurt and they all laughed it off, my little pea falls all the time so it wasn’t new to her but boy she she love seeing the other girls do the same as her!
Simple Running with a partner from tree to tree three times
Hula Hoop who can do hoop the longest best out of three chances
They loved this and I loved getting them so active so we decided this is how we will always have our first meeting after summer break!
Snacks: Water bottles, apples, oranges and gold fish crackers although it was so hot that day the water bottles were used in a more fun way (-: Since we were short half our troop we were done way early so the girls just let loose!
Here’s a print out of our activities if you want to have it, it was simple, clean and the girls had a lot of fun!
This past summer (2014) Troop 1391 had their first full weekend at camp and it was a blast rain and all these girls had fun!
Getting ready for our first full weekend I made fire starters, tested out the crafts we made t-shirt bags so I used mine as the charades game holder! We made dog tags and sharpie tie die t-shirts too. We also made bug jars and had bug catchers and little magnifying glasses to look at but not keep the bugs (-:
Our first night we watched movies and had popcorn while each of the girls arrived. Some of the girls went on a hike while it was day light too. And of course they played a mean game of charades!
The next day though they all went out Ms Lisa and Ms Erin took them during the day and then Ms Lisa and I took them for their night hike!
Our Juniors made a perfect fire for hot dogs smores and more!
Our Daisies and Brownies made solar pizza!
Pretty proud of these scouts!
These were awesome!
Of course we did crafts through out the weekend I send these kids home with a ton of stuff!
On day three our Daisies were getting a bit tired LOL (that’s the littlest pea right there getting too hot to move) SO…..
We brought out the water balloons and water blasters!
Here is our camp menu CAMP MENU and a letter for the parents on What To bring Now what we did with the walking tacos….we made it like a to go lunch in case parents came early it wouldn’t keep them from getting on the road.
My whole troop cleaned the cabin and it sparkled I really believe we were the first ones there in quite some time because it was not in good shape either. I am proud of my girls for taking the time to clean it up and make it wonderful for the next troop.
After the troop left; the peas and I stayed and clean the fire pit up (this was almost 2 hours of hard work but we did it!), when we got there it was in horrible condition looks like the last people to use it never cleaned it out and it sat all winter. The youngest pea cleaned out all the chunks of wood laying around and the oldest pea helped me move the old ashes. Remember as a Scout you must leave things better than they were when you got there.
One last shot of the peas and we were on our way home ! Hot sweaty messes ready to fight for the shower LOL! We can not wait until next year!
Here is a list of things I needed to make our weekend a success it may help you too!
Have you ever felt compelled to write a letter to tell a company or person just how great they were?
I always find myself telling everyone at work, the day after one of the Peas Dentist appointments, just how awesome our Dentist Dr. Mitchell and Hygienist Heather is. From the very first appointment Heather walked each Pea through the process, let them see and feel if possible everything they would be using for their appointment. Pyper was an old pro by the time Phoebe had her first appointment at 3 1/3 years old. So being the awesome big sister she can be (I said can be!) she prepared her for her first appointment. (picture here is from December not our last or first appointment)
This time, however, Heather exceeded the expectations of any parent when she had to tell Phoebe she had not one cavity BUT two.
The look on Phoebe’s face was pure sadness, she brushes as she should; but probably needed more help with those back teeth. I just took for granted that she got them, luckily these are baby teeth and will eventually fall out. BUT STILL! Anyway, Sissy had a cavity last time so she assured Phoebe she wouldn’t feel a thing. I hope this is the last of them!
That shot above it before she was told the news! Yikes! Although they do love going to the dentist (-:
I made the appointment for Phoebe’s filling for that Monday. That is when we had the pleasure of meeting Ms Amy who told Phoebe her only job was to keep her mouth open wide. (but not right now LOL)
Ms Amy and Dr Mitchell both went through each of the tools that they would use, showed her what her filling was made out of, gave her a couple little brushes to hold and made her super comfortable. She really was listening to Dr Mitchell but they also put Disney on the TV in front of her after Ms Amy talked to her LOL (-:
The only thing they kept from her was the needle to numb her mouth and boy was Dr Mitchell sly. He had it hidden by his sleeve so she wouldn’t see it LOL. She didn’t see a thing and the pre-numbing solution must have worked; but just in case it didn’t Ms Amy slowly put her arm over her in case she tried to put her hands to her mouth. These two are no rookies!
By the way Phoebe didn’t even flinch!
After waiting for the numbing to take over the fun began and again Phoebe never moved. Dr Mitchell and Ms Amy assured her the while time that she was doing great! She was amazing!
Once Dr Mitchell drilled the tooth, Ms Amy finished up the filling polishing and making it smooth. Phoebe being Phoebe tried to catch the filling dust as it came out….yep that’s Phoebe.
So, although it’s NOT something I wanted to have to do with either of the kids (Pyper was 9 and didn’t want me back there with her when she had hers done) I am glad I got to see these two with Phoebe. I couldn’t be any more happy that we picked Grove City Family Dentistry as our Dentist. Now the silly part…. that face she felt nothing had no pain but she swelled up a bit and sounded so silly it kept us in stitches.
A week after her appointment Phoebe received a card from Ms Amy, she was so excited not only to get mail LOL but just the fact that Ms Amy said the nicest things and made her feel so special ~
Thank you Dr Mitchell, Heather and Amy! We drive by the office every day on our way home after work and know that she is waving to you and screaming Hello to each of you by name (-:
http://www.gcfamdent.com/meet-the-team Yea Heather and Amy G!!
Follow them on Facebook just wait for Halloween to see them compete against each other for best costume! That’s right I pay attention LOL
PS they also have visited the girls schools in the past and all the kids loved it… http://www.gcfamdent.com/gcfd-in-the-classroom